Your Template Here

Create an HTML page using whatever layout and sizing you like. Link to your own stylesheets for consistency with your main website. Then place the word [ minisite ] where you want our MiniSite to appear. Our system automatically inserts the latest content and serves it to your readers.

Navigation

When your navigation changes, you can log into our admin panel and upload a new template. Or, just use an iframe to share code from your main website. We don't stand between you and your regular web updates.

In addition to your standard site navigation, web MiniSites are a great place to link to existing revenue drivers. You can create any connections you like between different areas of your site. MiniSites can offer gateways to:

  • Coupons
  • Directories
  • Mini-sites
  • Storefronts
  • And more!
header
Text size:    
 



Etiquette plan for a non-wedding bash

The finer points of planning and celebrating your don't-call-it-a-wedding celebration

If you're not saying a traditional "I do" you're joining a growing number of people in the U.S.

"Marriage optional" is one of the top trends that may affect consumer behavior and mind set in 2012, according to experts at JWT, a marketing communications company based in New York City.

In 2000, more than 3 million unmarried couples cohabited; in 2011 that number more than doubled to 7.6 million couples, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.

When family and friends learn of your event, they may have expectations that don't match yours.

Be very clear about what you're celebrating so your guests aren't confused or disappointed, say party experts.

Your invitation can be formal or casual, but it should avoid using the word wedding - even to explain what you're not doing.

Instead, use "something as simple as 'Come celebrate with us for our X years together.' Something fun and cute," says Sharon Ringier of Sharon Ringier Events in the Chicago area.

Whether your invitation extends to the guest's companion depends on your style and budget.

If you enjoy big parties and aren't worried about expenses, your invitation can include a plus-one, says Marley Majcher.

Add the plus-one if the recipient is married, engaged or living with someone, even if your partner doesn't know the couple, Majcher advises.

Gift giving is another element you should address in the invitation. Even without the wedding aspect, your guests will wonder whether gifts are acceptable.

They're not, according to Erin Grace.

"In these situations couples have been together. They may have lived together; they don't need to ask for gifts," says Grace, who runs her own event-planning firm in Los Angeles.

However, if you really want to discourage gift giving, say so in your invitation.

"If you don't want gifts, put no gifts please. It's appropriate here, where it's not for weddings," says Anna Post, great-great-granddaughter of Emily Post and co-author of "Emily Post's Etiquette, 18th Edition" (William Morrow, 2011).

As an alternative, add a card suggesting a donation to a specific charity instead of a present, says Ringier.

Whether you're planning your celebration yourselves or through an event planner, you have details to manage.

You won't have bridesmaids or a best man to assist, but you can ask those near and dear to pitch in. Friends brewed two kegs of beer and supplied glassware for Post's housewarming party with her boyfriend.

"I was touched by how helpful everyone was. Our friends were looking for things to do to help," says Post, who suggests a mutual round of toasts that acknowledges everyone. "The couple can thank their guests, then offer a toast to each other. Then maybe close friends can offer toasts as well," Post says.


Bev Bennett Bev Bennett, a veteran food writer and editor, is the author of "Dinner for Two: A Cookbook for Couples" and "30-Minute Meals for Dummies"

Comments Date
Name:
Email:
Comments :
 
footer_logo

Advertisements

You can use the space around the MiniSite content to create multiple ad and sponsorship positions that you can customize to your market. In fact, you can create a premium sponsorship opportunity by inserting ads or custom navigation inside the MiniSite area using a special feature in our system.

If you use JavaScript tags for ad serving or site tracking, you can add them to your template, and manage your MiniSite pages with the same tools you use to manage the rest of your site.

Footer